tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5249328666832343945.post2287208744231497295..comments2024-02-02T09:02:40.503-08:00Comments on <strong>Sweet with Fall and Fish</strong>: Blog It Out - All Blogged OutAaron John Curtishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06633231503315269549noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5249328666832343945.post-69701230952626119592011-05-14T10:50:15.346-07:002011-05-14T10:50:15.346-07:00Aaron, thanks for the taking the time to read your...Aaron, thanks for the taking the time to read your comments and for responding so thoughtfully. I got chills as I read through it. I know that if even one parent/spouse reads this, it will have a great influence on their relationships. <br /><br />I love how not only Becky and you, but also Dylan and you, compliment each other so masterfully. I didn't mean to suggest that you and Becky Marta Viciedohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16473232673829371819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5249328666832343945.post-4138817267601631802011-05-14T09:37:45.936-07:002011-05-14T09:37:45.936-07:00Before Becky and I started dating, I was talking w...Before Becky and I started dating, I was talking with my friend Z about fatherhood. "Our parents weren't perfect," he said, "and we won't be perfect. But it's important to admit to the kid when you fuck up. You can always apologize." <br /><br />The next day at breakfast, I told Dylan I was sorry for my behavior. He was trying to get to the Dade County Youth Aaron John Curtishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06633231503315269549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5249328666832343945.post-66378652140908454302011-05-14T08:56:06.325-07:002011-05-14T08:56:06.325-07:00Thanks so much for these comments.
"Perfecti...Thanks so much for these comments.<br /><br />"Perfection is devoid of evolution." So true. Perhaps Andi and I had just taken each-other as far as we could, and we needed to split to keep growing as individuals. I'll need to mull that one over for a while.<br /><br />So far Becky and I haven't been miserable - I've been miserable with her, but from suppressing past Aaron John Curtishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06633231503315269549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5249328666832343945.post-2172533956760375172011-05-13T10:14:25.107-07:002011-05-13T10:14:25.107-07:00One tiny, very harsh bit of unsolicited advice abo...One tiny, very harsh bit of unsolicited advice about the anger expression thing: you gotta get over it (as difficult as that might be and I'm glad the writing helps). "I feel like the world will come apart if I do," were your words about expressing anger and that is so familiar to me that when I read it, I felt my skin crawl. For me, I would take it a step further and say that theMoxxinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5249328666832343945.post-7376616396252533172011-05-13T10:13:56.774-07:002011-05-13T10:13:56.774-07:00Maybe I should write this out piece by piece on yo...Maybe I should write this out piece by piece on your Blog It Out series, but I read it back to back and a bit of laziness prevails today so I'll offer my apologies now. On Day 1, Alistair wrote "It's hard to see something you see as perfect die in front of you." While I agree, I'd like to share a perspective someone gave me about perfection. We often seek out this perfectMoxxinoreply@blogger.com